Traveling with a baby can be stressful. Just thinking about it gives me anxiety even though I have done it a few times and survived. I did have my share of struggles. So let’s talk about all the ways to make your traveling experience as easy as possible.
First things first, most airlines will allow you to bring a diaper bag (per baby), plus your own carry on and personal item. This is in addition to a stroller and car seat that you can check for free (some airlines have weight requirements on strollers, so just be sure to check). You will have plenty of space then to pack everything you could possibly need, but remember you are traveling with an infant and all the extra baggage to carry around might not be the best idea. Pack as light as possible to free up your hands.
The stroller can go through the airport with you and be checked when boarding the plane. This comes down to personal preference whether or not you want to lug the stroller around or try a baby carrier. It just depends on how your child does.
Kids under two, as long as they sit on your lap, fly for free. But this means you may have to prove their age when checking in. Many airlines require you to have a copy of your child’s birth certificate. Sometimes you will be able to get through without being asked, but you should always have it just in case.
When booking your flight make sure you let the airline know you will have a lap infant. Some websites have this as an option to select while others do not. You may have to call the airline and have them put it on your ticket.
If you choose for your baby to have their own seat than they will not be free. Although it is not advertised, some airlines offer infant fares. They are cheaper than a normal ticket. Young children will have to be in an approved carrier. You should be able to see these details on the airlines website.
Carry On Item
Whether this be the diaper bag or a larger carry-on bag, this is your survival bag. You need to pack everything you may possibly need to soothe your baby. Babies can change their mind so fast and you might need to pull something new out every few minutes, seriously. Here are some ideas:
- Wipes
- Diapers
- Bibs
- Disposable changing pads
- Extra clothes for you and baby (you might get peed on, spit up on)
- Burp cloths
- Bottles
- Snacks
- Toys (toys get dropped, so bring toys that can be washed. Airports/planes are dirty)
- Baby carrier
- Pacifiers
Nursing/Bottle Feeding on the Plane
Babies can struggle to adjust their ears after take-off and landing. Feeding them, nursing or bottle feeding (the sucking is what’s important), can help them to pop their ears. Sometimes a paci is enough to do the trick. If you are using a bottle and mixing formula, do not use the airplane water. It is not suitable for drinking. Ask a flight attendant for bottled water, or purchase some before getting on the plane.
While walking around the airport, it is helpful to know that many airports are equipped with mothers’ rooms or nursing/feeding stations now. You can take advantage of these before your flight as well.
Another nice thing to know is breastmilk, formula, ice/gel packs are exempt from the three ounce rule. When going through security, it will have to be taken out just like all carry on liquids.
Security
Going through security is never fun. One way to make it easier is the baby wear. I have never had a TSA agent ask me to remove baby.
Boarding
Families are usually offered early boarding. However, I find it best to board as late as possible. Less time on the crowded plane where baby doesn’t have a whole lot of wiggle room. Depends on your preference.
In Air
Good luck! In all seriousness, let the baby party. I mean all rules that are usually put in place are off. Keep baby happy for your sanity and those around you. Check out some more tips and in depth advice from some frequent flyer moms here and here.